3 Principles
A. The deepest principle in human nature is the craving to be appreciated.
B. One of the best talents you can utilize is arousing enthusiasm of those around you.
C. It's about sincere appreciation, not flattery. Flattery is selfish and insincere.
Thoughts on appreciation and flattery: Appreciation is from the heart, flattery is from the teeth. Appreciation is about having sparks of gratitude. People love appreciation but can see the mischief through flattery.
Quote on flattery: "Flattery is telling the other person precisely what he thinks about himself."
2 Insights
A. Appreciation and Encouragement increase enthusiasm.
B. Praise others publicly as well as privately.
1. Question
How can I figure out the other person's good points and then supply honest and sincere appreciation.
Teachings Of Jesus
1 Thessalonians 5:10-12 (New International Version)
10He died for us so that, whether we are awake or asleep, we may live together with him. 11Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
